how it works
Safety isn’t a feature—it’s our foundation.
HONOR is the only dating app that requires a background check to join—and includes real-time safety monitoring to stay. We’re alerted if a criminal offense is committed after someone joins, ensuring that every member remains eligible to be on the platform. After each date, members share feedback like whether they felt safe and if their match looked like their photos. That input rolls into a visible safety score, helping build trust with every check-in.
This transparency builds accountability and helps everyone date with confidence.
SAFETY FIRST
actions speak louder than profiles
Your check-ins at real places power smarter matches and show who you are—no bios, no fluff.
The more you check in and upload your receipts, the better your matches. Show up often and you could land in our weekly Honorable Mentions—because we reward effort, not in-app purchases.
built different, by design
no awkward check moments.
You’ll both decide how to pay when setting up the date.
No ghosting.
After the date, you each answer a quick follow-up, which includes if you want a second date.
No in-app messaging.
No endless chats, no creepy DMs, no unsolicited pics. Just real dates, faster.
No endless profiles.
Just photos, age, and location—because real chemistry happens face to face. It's built through in-person human experiences including scent, eye contact, and unspoken cues—not behind a screen and not through filters.
show up, give back.
Every time you check in, upload a receipt, or go on a date, we learn more about who you are so we can find who you're looking for.
And each also earns points that translate into donations to local nonprofits focused on community, connection, and well-being.
So even on the dates that don’t spark, you’ve still shown up for something that matters.
